Singles’ Season

Moving on, I just realized over the weekend that some of my amazing eligible bachelor friends of mine are single. Which, is a curious thing for me, since I usually felt that winter is when breakups are more prevalent in the community of friends I have. But it seems this time round autumn has brought in the season earlier. I commented about this to a friend yesterday to which he said that it was an irony that it was coming from me. I am not attached and has never been and he wondered when I was going to find someone. Lately it seems to be a concern to the friends I have been talking to. This bunch wants to see me married in a sari and attend my big fat Indian wedding. Easier that than done, is my reply to them. I used to think that it was important to settle down in life. But lately I have abandoned that thought. Thanks to another group of people who think that I should focus on my career path since I am made to achieve in life. They think I probably would get married only when I have achieved all I have set out to achieve, which to a large extend is right. In that case I would never get married since I have so much I want to achieve. I then ask myself if I really wanted to settle down in the end. To which one of my brilliant friends say my option would change when I meet the right guy. Right! And he is most probably going to come and sweep me off my feet and there will be lightning running through my body. I mean where is the practicality of it?

Over the weekend I was watching The Proposal. It was a nice romantic movie but don’t get me wrong, I was not smitten by the male character in fact I was so in love, yes in love with Alaska. And not because I want to get married there but I would like to own some property there. It is so beautiful. Back to the character , well where in the world would you get a guy like him? For God sake if I can find someone like him I would lock him up in a tower and do a thorough psychological test on him. Just to make sure he is real.

Well that makes me wonder if winter is going to bring a revival of the love season or is it going to get worst. The future is yet to be. But for me definitely I know, I will be falling in love in December and the name of my love interest is SIKKIM!!!